Keeping Cool and Calm

by Kerri Silverthorn   |   Fri, Jun 18th, 2021

Summer days are on the horizon and that can sometimes be overwhelming for families and kids. Focus on sensory preferences, and help your child have a cool and calm summer! Click here for a complete guide to help your child build their own sensory toolkit to utilize during stressful moments.

Mouth & Breath

  • Step outside and blow some bubbles or blow on a pinwheel. You can help your child focus on breathing and ensure they are taking deep breaths by using a fun toy. Breathing can help calm the body and mind while reducing anxiety!
  • Use a crazy straw or regular straw to encourage a little extra effort when kids drink summer refreshments. Keep some crunchy or gummy snacks on hand. The pressure on the mouth and jaw often times has a calming effect.


  • Encourage kids to squeeze a ball or handle fidget tools to calm down, such as spinners, stretchy bands, or pop tubes.
  • Add playdoh or kinetic sand to your sensory tool kits for kids to squeeze, roll, or pinch.
  • Coloring books or doodle pads engage the hands and mind.
  • Applying pressure may help your child calm down during a moment of stress or frustration. Headbands and wrist bands provide calming pressure and bear hugs or finger squeezes are a great way for you to regulate their breathing or heart rate.


  • Noise can be tricky. Some children prefer noise-canceling headphones to calm down while others prefer fun sounds like the jingling of bells or the relaxing hum of a white noise machine. Learn what your child prefers and add those items to your toolbox!


  • Certain smells can help your child feel calm and centered. Scented lotions are great for massage. Put different scents in a jar and allow your child to sniff them as another way to utilize smell as a calming tool.


  • Keep sunglasses or an eye mask in your calm kit if bright lights bother your child. You can also dim the lights or draw the curtains to help cool them off. Light-up toys like balls or tops may prove to be a good visual tool.

Remember that this calm down kit is meant to help your child- don’t force them to play with anything and try to have fun while introducing new tools to them. For more information on sensory play, emotion regulation, and motor activities, check out Miss Farrah’s website

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Kerri Silverthorn Fri, Jun 18th, 2021